DABDA

DABDA

Oct 11, '09 8:01 AM for everyone

I hope some people just know how to understand grieving. Guess they haven't gone through such a process. Cause hell it's not as easy as chewing meat. It's more like chewing rubber! No matter how hard you chew it just won't break down...

Study and digest this! Grieving process for DABDA... and DABDA for Denial, Anger,Bargaining, Depression & Acceptance.. Words are self-explanatory. And FYI, it's not a one-way process; you jump back & forth on it. Today Denial, tomorrow you think you've Accepted but the next you're Depress again. There's no time limit for grieving....because there's no measuring on how much lost a person has especially when you valued it for a long time and valued preciously.

So please understand that I have lost a lot and I want nothing else right now but to successfully finish the back-and-forth process of grieving. Yes it's hard and people might think I need help. And yes, it should be easier to have some help. But the best help people could offer me is friendship and company, and the last thing I need is romance!

Last Month was so Good... Today, I will make it Better

Last Month was so Good... Today, I will make it Better

Jun 5, '07 9:26 PM for everyone

June 5, 2007              -           Tuesday                                 7:05pm

LAST MONTH WAS SO GOOD… TODAY, I WILL MAKE IT BETTER…

Do you know how it feels like to have everything in your hand in one second, and the next you see it all falling apart? I’m sure you did. We all did!

Last month I had everything I wanted; I had my happiness, my friends and the “love.” Last month I saw everything fall apart. Last month I was hurt. Last month I lost the “love.” Last month I almost lost a friend. And this month, I may not have the love and the fun, but I still have my friends.

It is not important to narrate the details, what matters are the things I realized and lessons I learned. After every situation, never forget to think, analyze and reflect why it happened. Everything has a reason; it may lead you to something better or worse, or it may be a test. From the situation I’ve been, it was both.

Trials are supposed to make us a better person, strong and wise. It hurts us and we sometimes fall on our knees and just cry it out; these are just normal human reactions. Anger and sadness are normal emotions, but let it be just an emotion and not an inspiration. At a point we just get tired of the anger or sadness we feel and we just want it to go away. It’s not that easy but as long as you have the will to succeed with your intentions, you will surely attain it.

When you love, you prioritize the people you love. God first! Next on the list are my family, then my friends, then boys, then other people. I love my friends! I feel sorry for thinking something bad for a good friend without a good reason. It was a mistake and people make mistakes, it’s just a matter of correcting it and learning from it. I hope she forgives me.

Hoes over Bros.